There are one – woman men and then there are several – women men. I know men who need a different woman every night (or day), and I know men who have been with their soul mates for the longest time and those who are into happy marriages (if there is a thing like that). Let’s talk about womanizers, In General.
1) PLAYERS VS CHEATERS
Some might say (in their defense) not to hate the player but to hate the game.
Well, ‘Players’ are just that. People playing a game called ‘Let’s Get In The Sack’. They have multiple female sex partners and are honest about it.
‘Cheaters’ on the other hand are liars who want to put their ‘pants’ on fire. They interact sexually with multiple women under false pretenses. They present a façade of a Long Term Monogamous Relationship with one woman, But deep down they are hungry for a variety in their sex lives.
2) OPTIONS, OPTIONS, OPTIONS
If a man is good looking and has a stable job, He is worth dating. Chances are, there is a huge population of women with the same viewpoint. Now, add to it a good performer (in bed) and everyone wants a piece of him. As they say, A Man with no options only THINKS of Sex with other Women, whereas A Man with Options HAS Sex with other women.
3) A FRIEND ‘IN NEED’ STAYS A FRIEND
Don’t Believe the RomComs. A friend with benefits rarely gets promoted to a long term girlfriend. A booty call is just that, A BOOTY CALL (For a Reason). If a woman thinks she will start out as a man’s ‘sexual toy’ and later get promoted or upgraded to his long term partner or life partner, she is grossly mistaken. She better pull up her socks (and put on some clothes and leave). Unless she is incredibly Lucky, This is Not Happening.
4) YOU CANT CHANGE A WOMANIZER
Nope! Hope against hope, but you cant change him into a ‘monogamous’ boyfriend or husband. It’s just not thrilling enough. If you don’t want him to turn into a Cheater, Just leave him alone. Enjoy the services he offers, if you have to. You can obviously thank him for being honest though.
